It is unfortunate, but the black community will do better without people who want to undermine what it means to be black. Comment by Salsa Friday, December 19, Reply. I have thought about it. Comment by relayionship Friday, December 19, Reply.
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What Salsa needs to realize is that Lonely neglected unfulfilled majority of black people would not be here or at least who they are if it were not for some past interracial relationship.
Whether it was welcomed or not. It is about the hatred that some people have for their own race. These people have been deeply affected by the systemic racism which breeds contempt for black rrelationship. This brings them to hate themselves and others like them. They also go to great lengths to distance themselves from blackness. Comment by theblacksentinel Friday, December 19, Reply. Comment by brotherpeacemaker Saturday, December 20, Reply.
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Once again I have found commonality with you. It seems some of us males see something as n innocent only to to be informed otherwise by our better halves. When oh when will they realize that we are not overly complicated, skillfully deceitful creatures, rather than mere curious individuals?
For some relatiojship us it might be curiosity. Comment by brotherpeacemaker Monday, December 22, Reply. Comment by brotherpeacemaker Monday, December 22, Most black women like myself are frustrated.
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Its my sense of enlightenment and optimism that allows he not to put up something as brazen as the sista above. Head over to What About Our Daughters as well as other blogs for written for black women by black women and you will see a common thread. There is a feeling of hurt and betrayal that has turned into hatred and resentment.
You will see it in the comments. I tend to agree with them. I started writing and had a little problem stopping.
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Nevertheless, a powerful force is being used to promote an idea into the minds of young impressionable black people the notion that black people should not, must not, and cannot unite in any reasonable fashion to take the black community into the future.
Where can this notion manifest itself best than in the idea that black men do not see black women as equals in our struggle for equality?
A house divided cannot and will not stand. Ever since black people have been brought to this land against their will, black men and black women have been programmed to see each other as scapegoats for the failures of the black community. And all too often, this image has been carefully nurtured by the racially generic dominant community that is predominantly white to fpr project a negative perception of black people in general.
A black man that disrespects black women is promoted as a new musical phenomenon by the music industry.
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Images of blacks as people with questionable ethics and morals are constantly being promoted throughout fictional and actual media broadcastings. And instead of us rleationship our attention on the music industry or the movie industry or whatever you may have that promotes these images and helps to shape the idea of what it means to be black in America, we turn our wrath on each other.
Anything that is promoted as a black problem is consumed hook, line, sinker, rod, reel, waders, boat, pier, dock, and etcetera. If it is about black people it must be true. Black women feel that black men do not respect them. It should be no surprise that black men feel the same way. Too many black men want to promote the idea that black women are difficult to get along with and life is just easier and sweeter with a white woman.
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